Let's Learn to Become a Geisha

So how can you incorporate the ancient practice of a geisha into your life? With some practice, patience and a little planning even the most dull relationship can get a healthy boost from this. Here are some great ideas to get you started:

1. Become the geisha girl - first and foremost you need to ensure that your attitude is good. Feel the power within yourself to be someone who can deliver sensuality to your partner. Begin by bathing in a hot bath lightly scented with jasmine or lavender. Dress in a short wrap or housecoat that is pretty and feminine. Slip on some pretty sandals or slippers.
   
   Take special attention to your makeup. Red lipstick is best. You want to accentuate the soft kissable heart that your mouth forms. If you have longer hair, pull it up off of your neck and tie it into a bun or another seductive style. Place perfume on a few select spots, nape of neck, between the breasts, behind your ears and on wrists, with a subtle and elegant perfume.
   
   
2. Find a spot in your home, most likely the living room, where there is adequate floor space and softer lighting. Place candles around the room where you want hints of light and play instrumental music softly in the background. Place two pillows on the floor on either side of a coffee table or something of similar height. Serve him a meal that is light and is full of flavor.
   
   
3. Once you are finished your meal sit down and enjoy an after dinner drink with him. Don't go excessive, you just want something that will further the relaxation for both of you. Now that you have both enjoyed your moments turn to him and become the person that you are aiming for.
   
   
4. With a bottle of massage lotion that has a nice exotic scent, such as lavender, vanilla or cocoa butter, ask him if he would like a massage. Remember, the most important thing is visual stimulation. Let him know that you are honored to be in his company. Look at him like only you would, with love, adoration and appreciativeness. Starting at his shoulders and neck, massage seductively down in a circular motion being careful to be gentle and light with your touch.
   
   
5. Ask him if he would like to hear an erotic tale while performing his massage. Within this erotic tale play out your fantasies with your characters and tell him what your deepest desires are. This is one of the key points that will lead to him to feeling like the master of his domain.
   
   
6. Once your story is finished you will probably both be in the mood for some sultry passion between the sheets. Kiss him gently and, while holding his hand and glancing at him appreciatively, lead him to the bedroom. Let him know that you have one more thing to make his night complete.
   
   
7. With lighted candles placed around the bedroom to offer enough light for him to see you, slip out of the robe that you are wearing and let the passion ignite!